Buying Guide for Men
Buying Guide for Men
Buying lingerie for your partner can be difficult. The huge variety available these days can be both a blessing and a curse - with so many knickers, thongs, boyshorts and bras to choose from. Luckily, BeCheeky.com is here to make the ride as smooth as possible!
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When it comes to buying lingerie, size does matter!
BeCheeky.com provides many styles in easy-to-choose sizing: Small, Medium, Large, etc. Where a more distinct size is required (i.e. for a bra), there are plenty of ways to find out her size without asking her outright and ruining the surprise: -
i) Snoop around her underwear drawer to look at the labels on her other lingerie. Yes boys, it's allowed - this time!
ii) Look at her day-to-day bras and knickers whilst they are out drying from the wash, this will give you an idea of what size is most comfortable for her.
A handy tip on bra sizes is that they are always a number and letter combination – the number indicating the back size and the letter indicating the cup size – so try to spot these on any bra labels and make a note!
Once you have found out her all-important stats, refer to our sizing chart to find out what will be the most perfect fit.
Finally, without wanting to complicate matters, look out for which country the lingerie you're considering comes from. French brands such as Lola Luna and Luxxa will tend to come up a little small in fit, whilst American brands like Dreamgirl will tend to be a bit more generous. For further advice on the cut and fit of our brands, email: care@BeCheeky.com.
Choosing the right style is important but tricky as there are no hard and fast rules, it literally comes down to personal taste, so look out and pay attention! Ultimately you are buying a gift for her, but lingerie is a treat for you too. Try and strike a balance between something you think she will like and something that you're keen on as well. She wants to feel sexy and you want her to as well, but she won't feel sexy if she's not comfortable.
Don’t forget you’re buying a gift, so purchasing some day-to-day knickers or a practical plain bra might not go down that well. It’s worth looking for something a little exciting, but bear in mind if it’s the first time you are buying lingerie for her or you haven’t known her long, some restraint may be advisable. Micro g-strings, for example, are a lot more daring than a boyshort which offers far more coverage.
For inspiration, why not go back to her wardrobe (as if you needed another excuse!) and look at what styles she normally wears? As a general guide, if she wears tight fitting clothes she may prefer sheer fabrics so that her lingerie doesn’t show beneath her clothes (try looking at some of our sexy panties and thongs in this case). Tight fitting or brightly coloured clothes may also be a good indicator of body confidence on her part, so it may be worth looking at some of our more daring thongs. On the other hand, if she tends to wear looser clothes and floaty skirts she may like to wear lingerie with more detailing, e.g., ruffle knickers and boyshorts. However, do bear in mind that some of the products in our range are more suited to the bedroom, purely for pleasure rather than for wearing beneath clothes on a day-to-day basis. If this is what you're look for, we suggest you visit our Boudoir page for something extra sexy and special.
Why not also have a look at our quick-reference style guide below for some well-suited gift-ideas?
Naughty Gifts
If you know your partner very well and are looking to be very cheeky indeed, go for something from our daring thongs selection.
Great brands of naughty lingerie are Brazilian label Sensualle for skimpy and original designs, or Lola Luna for something sophisticated, but barely there.
No expense spared
If you’re looking to really spoil someone, look to high-end luxury designer labels like Damaris, Spoylt or Madame V - or check out our designer thongs and designer knickers pages.
These brands showcase exciting on-trend designs with luxury fabrics and exquisite presentation that can’t fail to impress.
Flirty or cheeky
If you’re looking for something a bit flirty or cheeky, try our Morgan range or give a cheeky little gift from Mademoiselle. These are great for younger, or simply young-at-heart fashion-conscious girls who enjoy shopping in high-street stores like Topshop or H&M.
Pretty but thrifty
If your partner has expensive taste but you don’t have the finances to splash out, try something from the So Shei and Sista Shei ranges, or even Playful Promises. These all look opulent and are covered in stylish finishing touches - you won't believe how excellent value they are.
Also some of the items from our sexy panties range look much more expensive than they actually are!
Girly or romantic
Girly girls may prefer more romantic styles such as lingerie by faux-vintage designer Ayten Gasson or pretty styles from Jolidon.
Also, look at the feminine styles offered by Princess for even more romantic lingerie gift ideas.
Again, the most straightforward piece of advice is, look at what she normally wears. If she likes pale, pastel colours, try to find something similar from our lingerie range. If her clothes are more vibrant and colourful, again look for lingerie which suits her taste. She has more than likely spent half her life figuring out which colours suit her best so most of the work will have been done for you!
If you really struggle choosing a colour, play it safe and go for black. It's classic and looks great on everyone.
If you're a fan of The Apprentice or even Gordon Ramsay you will know that presentation is everything! You've gone to all the trouble of picking out some truly special sexy lingerie for her, so we like to make it really easy for you to go the extra mile. With our FREE gift wrapping service we take all the hassle out of making sure that your gift is beautifully presented. If you want something really special, you can select our luxury wrapping service at the chekout for just £3.50.
Visit our Gift Wrap page for more details.
You may feel anxious about buying lingerie as a gift but with BeCheeky.com there’s no reason to worry. We have a 100% no quibble guarantee – if you’re not happy, just return it to our FREEPOST address in its original condition with the tags on and we will give you an exchange or refund. For details of our refunds policy, visit our Returns page.
If you're finding it really difficult to choose, then who better to ask for advice than another woman? Our friendly female staff are more than happy to guide you through our range of lingerie to help you choose something sexy that your partner will love.
Why not e-mail us with your dilemma and our team of lingerie experts will personally respond within 24 hours, or if you really are desperate call us on 01202 545 999



















